Anatomy has a way of getting into one's head and laying an imprint on the inside of the eyelids, so there is no escaping the images.
I would really like to say more, but lately, i've been very blank. I'm just completely enervated. Who would have thought that trying to accomplish things you don't really want to accomplish is so energy draining?
What is the ideal mate? Most people, that i've asked this question to, delve right into either physical details or little miscellaneous details: nice, caring, humourous, strong, accepting, easy-going, etc.
This is all very good and peachy, but it's very ordinary. Things like this don't necessarily draw a person, and if they do, it doesn't last long. There is one vital aspect in a person that may make them the ideal mate. That's not to say that the one aspect is entirely independent of all the other small things. If a person were to have that one aspect and yet be very rude and difficult, they would most definitely not be the one.
As for what that certain aspect is, I have not yet been able to define it. It seems to me that it differs greatly from person to person. It is something that graduates a person from the status of compatible to imperfectly perfect.
In my own case, I feel I have realized what this aspect is. Again, I still am not able to define it. Yet, besides that one special characteristic, I have learned that a few small things tend to draw me more than others: passion for morality, surprise, and a sense of humour that allows pranks. I do love surprises and pranks....
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who says silver's ever blank? i like the way you finally put that aspect into subcharacteristics...
i like all those... honestly, i have been thinking really hard on this ideal mate shit... for at least a day or half a day... i think. "thinking" too hard on this matter makes things more difficult and for me i should not be too conclusive on anything be it about the ideal mate shit or anything. i decline and resign from the position of a character-judge. not my forte, silver, trust me when i say this... and i think from now on i will put myself, my opinion first while i think... narcissism is FUN... and i want to accomplish it in its entirety ... i mean i am part narcissist already, yeah?
idk... i think i should spend time by focusing on goals... i should have more than one. i want to be banquo... :) not macbeth so don't worry.
i love you.
<3
I think the one element you're talking about is attraction, or chemistry. It's that spark that can't be defined and can stand independent of the variables you thought you liked in a person.
But man, you are thinking about this way too much.
lol. funny post. so what's your one big characteristic? Sadly for me I already know what my 'characteristics' for an ideal mate are, (yes, its plural) unfortunately, i fear i dont qualify to be the ideal mate of the kind of person who would be my ideal mate, if you know what i mean...
BTW, am so glad you have shifted and LIKE pranks and surprises now... once upon a time, u didnt... lol... teehee....
Oh and by the way -
what naked men?!!!!!
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